Getting Older – Officially

by Maureen on January 29, 2013

It's My Birthday and I'm Officially Old!Today I am card carrying officially old.  I hate it but the alternatives aren’t spectacular so onward and upward.

Getting older doesn’t mean you lose your sense of self, your sexuality and turn all invisible like the articles in magazines tell us.  For me, it’s not going to happen.  I have no intention of feeling “old” nor do I have any intention of no longer feeling sexy or flirting.  I’ll flirt until they put me in a box.

The secret to staying young is having a good sense of self and knowing to your soul that you’re not any different now than you were when you were 30.  Yeah, the bones are creakier and the face has more lines but the inner me is exactly the same.  I just intend to keep feeling that way.

Another secret is keeping connected with friends.  Don’t have any friends?  I didn’t have any when I moved up here a couple of years ago but I’ve got heaps now.  I started by joining different groups whose interests I share.

I like cooking, so I joined a weekly cooking class.  All women my age and we have a great time.  I’ve found some goddesses who’ve become good friends and I’ve found others through my blog.

How did I find others?  Facebook, newspaper, meetup groups and Twitter.  If I can do it, so can you.  The best bit is once you start going out and being with new friends, your whole outlook changes.  There are people to care about, to help or even to date but dating’s not been anything on my radar since I met John.

Another way to stay visible is to feel good physically.  Get out in the sunshine, go for a walk, park away from the shop and walk a bit and breathe some fresh air.  If your doctor prescribes medication, take it.  The number of people who tell me that they have meds but don’t take them and then complain that they’re sick all the time makes me crazy.

Finally, look in the mirror every day and tell yourself how much you like you.  I do it every day when I get out of the shower and look at myself all dripping wet.  I’m no pretty picture, that’s for sure but I really like who I am.  When you like yourself, others will like you too.

Can’t decide what’s to like?  There’s heaps.  Are you kind?  Caring?  Thoughtful?  Friendly?  Intelligent?  Funny?  Clever?  Helpful?  I could go on forever but everyone is special and has lots of reasons to like them.  Grumpy or negative?  Stop it.  Nobody will want to be around you and why are you grumpy, anyway?  Grumpy people have to choose to be grumpy so don’t choose it.

We all decide what our life is by the thoughts we think.  When you are always looking on the bright side, bright things happen.  :)

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